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Member Since: 6/15/2003

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Thursday, March 30, 2006

I'll forgo the usual formats used on this page when it was active.  All I have to say is, it's amazing what I've missed since the last I used this page more than a month ago (maybe two months). Where to start?

I'll begin with the immediate and recent items:
Jared, I'm not entirely sure how you located this page, but either way you did.  Don't take that the wrong way, my guess is that somewhere down the line you probably heard of what was going on and stumbled on here (news travels extremely fast in my network).  You are indeed right; history has repeated itself and I am directly in your shoes as it were back in 2004.  The roles are the same, but the actors are different.  What you put in the comments is true about Charlotte.  I do not know about the number of guys before me but I am fairly certain that the same old story has played out numerous times in the past as it appears to be a recurring theme (first you, now me).  As you have undoubtedly read on this blog as posted by my friends, while the events may differ, the outcomes are largely the same.  I will define that later in this post so just bear with me.     Oh and might I add, you are more than welcome to comment however, I do not wish you put you or your fiance in the line of fire so to speak.  It would not be right to bring in two people who are rightfully innocent into something they are not a part of.

Charlotte (This section is aimed right at you ):
My, my, my....... how you disappoint me.  Look at the drama you have decided to cause; not with me but with my friends and other people you do not know. How unfortunate that you try to make yourself look good when in fact in your relationships, you are the primary cause of all the issues.  Did that not occur to you?  You do not understand me one bit.  You'd like to think that the shit talking and propaganda campaign you are working with here will do much to upset me, but it hasn't.  You cannot upset someone who does not care.  You claim that I am the one starting drama when in fact, I had no drama prior to your arrival in my life.  You single handidly created issues from nowhere; made one bad situation worse to the point that I had to cut ties and reluctantly seperate from an entire group; and on top of that, you have irritated my friends to no end.  All because you say that you want to talk to me when there is nothing more to be said.  If you were indeed mature, you would have let things go as many people would in similar situations.  But instead you decide to go on some retarded crusade to prove a point; which turns out to be nothing but a hopeless cause that makes you look worse than before.  And what is the point of calling one of my friends?  Yeah I was notified of that.  There is nothing to discuss and nothing to talk about.  You just do not want to accept reality.

Other Items:
Be aware, this page was duplicated running on a user ID, SumGuyOnline.  That site is fake since well, you can just tell for those of you who have known me for so long.

Let me also add, that to reiterate:  Yes this is history repeating itself.  Charlotte is doing exactly what she did to the other ex.  Let me verify that fact.  What is interesting to note is that what she did to the guy before me; while it may have nearly shattered his relationship, in the end they stayed together and now that girl is his fiance.  In my case....... As much as the girl and I keep our relationship private, I will reveal this:
Early on in our relationship Charlotte tried to cause turmoil in my (then) new relationship.  The girl and I nearly broke up right there and then.  But we didn't.  Instead we consider Charlotte a minor issue and our relationship became stronger.  So much so that at this stage in my life, I am willing to settle with my girlfriend.  I have never been happy with someone until now and my friends in my inner ring all know that this is very, very much true.

Final Words:
Charlotte, give up.  No one cares.  Go do something else and actually earn your degree in whatever field you choose.  If you really think you would ever get that Ferrari like you love to proclaim, why don't you work toward it?  And, yes Charlotte, move on.  There are no second passes.  And before you try to "predict" what will happen to my girlfriend and I; don't bother since you can't.  Since you like to say so much about karma, well, karma is coming back on you.  Continue this way and you will be alone.  You are the one who is making things worse.  And as usual, you are the one who loves to involve other people.  There is and has not been anything to discuss since we broke up.  And I am sorry that you have failed to understand that.  You like to think that I am upset about the other stuff (whatever it may be), but I am not.  I do not have time to deal with petty shit like what you are trying to do.  It is pointless, so give up.  Oh, and by the way, I do have a heart; only not towards you but my current girlfriend.  Go ahead, be upset.  Post your "evidence".  The rest of us will continue on with our lives.

Jared and Elaine:  On behalf of my girlfriend (the girl) and I, we wish to extend our congratulations on getting engaged.  We wish you much luck and hope that your relationship continues to be strong.

These will be the only remarks that I will make regarding this.  And my final entry on this web page.

-COMM LINK OFFLINE-
-A_DECOY SIGNED OFF-


Wednesday, March 22, 2006

This page is dedicated to the ex gf for anyone who wants to post anything to you. The question we all wonder is..."What do you want from ex bf? What do we need to do so that you can cease all communications with you?" We all don't want to have anything to deal with you anymore? Haven't you noticed we don't post large paragraph comments on to your page? We do not know what kind of boy you are with now, but he won't be with you long if you keep acting like this with all of your exs. Let me ask you this? is your boy happy with you or are you just claiming on his behalf and not letting him speak for himself. Move on...this isn't worth your time and all of our time.


Please don't call us asking for his new number.
If anything, we won't give it to you.

Please don't try to stalk us through the internet.
No matter how hard you try, it's not really stalking.

Have a nice day!


Tuesday, March 21, 2006

psycho bitch..........alert

this charbarr (charlotte) is some crazy psycho bitch.  PATHETIC, PATHETIC PATHETIC..... she keeps telling people to grow up...she needs to grow up.  she tells everyone she is happy with someone new, but she seems to be contradicting herself...harrassing everyone including her ex.  GROW UP BITCH........stalking and posting comments on everyone's sites, even the ones you don't even know.  don't you have better things to do.  oh, i know why, you are PATHETIC, and NO ONE CARES AND LOVES YOU not even your fucking parents, who cut your funding.  you are pathetic.....staying in davis doing nothing with your life.  leave us alone.  one advice....GET A LIFE, BITCH!


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We're borrowing the format used on this site; even though it's been a while since it was used by the acutal owner.

Because someone just doesn't understand...........

It's funny how someone thinks that they've been watched when they haven't.  It's hilarious that someone gets mad over something said over the internet and think that the guy still cares when he doesn't.  And it's damn funny when u like to think we like u, when well.... we don't.

U like to tell him to get over it when he has. Maybe u haven't since you took the time to find him on MySpace and try to get in his way again.  And we wonder why u like bothering us when we have other shit to do.  It's a major sign of desperation when u find bad excuses to go to his place and try to start shit.... did you really need that book back?  And why the fuck would u even throw rocks at his window?  How fucking desperate are u?  (And did u think we wouldn't know about that sad incident? News travels fast.. especially when u have ties to the family core).  And yes, we know it was only one instance.. but knowing u it could happen again because it's sad and ur sad for wanting to try and get back petty shit... and who the hell takes back stuff they've given to someone during a relationship?  Ur the only one we know of that's done that.. and we know he did send it back to u.. and we know the reasons why but we're not telling. 

U also like to claim that we're manipulated..if we were manipulated by him, we wouldn't have tried to convince him not to get with u and it would have worked.  Instead we lost that battle and he got with you anyway... we thought it'd last 30 days, instead it lasted 10 long months... u like to think you were the best thing that happened to him, but you weren't.  There was a lot of cash to be made on that point spread.

Nothing has been told to us about you in months... not since May when you two broke up.  So you can't say he's talking shit when... he's said nothing about you to us since you two broke up.  Well.. maybe something was said but we just didn't care to hear it since it's stupid... the whole thing is stupid.  He told your friends exactly what he planned to let out, and to seed things; it was good bait to see who was trustworthy and who wasn't huh?

No one cares about what ur trying to do.  No one cares if you found someone new and are happy, Rich sure doesn't... He hasn't given a shit since u 2 broke up; get used to it.  What ur doing is getting old very fast.  Go about ur business and stop interfering with all of us.  We don't have time to waste on u.  Most of all, leave Rich alone already.  He doesn't want to be ur friend, he doesn't want anything to do with u.  Not because u can supposedly "bust him out" or whatever the hell u say, but because... ur irritating.  Our words, not his. 

Leave comments all u want on here.. it falls on deaf ears.  No one cares.. we just took time to compose this (we all contributed) because u probably had to hear it from someone else.

And u can try to predict what Rich will do... but u can't.  See ur mad because all of ur attempts to make him jealous didn't work.  Not when u were supposedly talking to other guys after u guys broke up and definitely not when u started to claim u fucked his older brother.  If anything, it was a good laugh at a bad attempt... u can't get jealous over someone u don't care about.  And if u claim to care about him, u'd know that leaving him alone is the best damn thing u can do.  Ur envious of the fact that he moved on and u can't/don't want to deal with it.  So u try to start shit with him, stalk us and try to find shit out about his girlfriend too... who's the stalker here?  On top of that, u start shit with people u don't even know!  WTF is wrong with u?  How many stupid battles are u going to start?  How many people are u going to piss off more?

And yes, Rich hasn't used this site in a while... not since u decided to irritate him again.  The "new" stuff u see is what we put here... ever wonder why they're mostly short? And the responses u see come from all of us lol    To put things in words u can understand:
This was all put here for u because we knew u'd try to get in his way again.  We know that you're tracking all of us or trying to, and we knew that it would happen... it happened once, it was going to happen again.  If ur so happy with some new guy, then why the hell do u care what he's up to? U like to think his on "blast" or however the fuck u wanna call it (it's called english), but he could care less about u.  Leave him alone, it's for ur own good.  Get a life dammit!  Stop being a damn stalker!

But if u think ur that important... go ahead

And now without further delay, we present to u:
The Ramblings and Desperation of The Ex

Go away now.

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